The secret life of Lulu

My familiar and I in March 2014.

My familiar and I in March 2014.

Bob and I are missing our cat Lulu.  She was our first cat, our senior cat, and she lived with us for sixteen years.  She enjoyed the time she had. She made the best of everything, even when Teeny bullied her into living upstairs in our bedroom for eighteen months. That was the low point.

Near the end of that time, Lu decided she was ready to come down, at first for an hour or so at a time with me there constantly — she would sneak past Teeny and we’d go into the backyard, and then she’d sneak back into the house and back upstairs when she was ready — and then downstairs with us 24/7 again.

Bob was remembering just now how, several months ago, when he started using a squishy silicone toe spacer to protect his broken toe, Lulu was entranced with it (doubtless by the funky, animal smell of the thing).  When he took it off, she would find it and hunt it all over the house,  “killing it” again and again, bumping into furniture and making war cries as she did this.

Mostly this happened between two and four a.m.  Bob had to start hiding the toe spacer when he took it off at night.

I felt, and feel, terrible for her death.  If I’d been paying closer attention, I could have gotten her to the vet sooner and maybe made her more comfortable, if not extended her life.

But just now I got a message on Facebook from our former neighbor Dean Holt: Buddhist, web designer, yoga instructor, multi-talented guy [renovated-his-100-year-old-house-including-installing-new-copper-linings-in-all-the-box-gutters talented], and kind neighbor.   What he told me blew me away:

I was walking with Hilda McClanahan this morning and she had a Lulu story. As part of her Hambrick Ave. forays, Lulu would go into Hilda and Ed’s yard . . . and was friends with Hilda’s Great Dane, rubbing herself on the Dane’s legs and getting a little attention from the humans, too. Now that is something from Lulu’s Secret Life that I would not have expected to hear.

Lu roamed as far as Hilda‘s house?  She liked dogs?

Who knows what else we never knew about her?

This story really woke me up.  Lu had more power to shape her life than I gave her credit for, and she used it.  Her life was richer than I will ever know.

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Attack of the Swamp Rose

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Bob gave me the greatest present for Valentine’s Day — a gift certificate to Antique Rose Emporium [www.weareroses.com] in Texas.  Part of the gift was my getting to choose a rose for our limited space.  He enjoyed my decision-making process:

  • I hoped a species rose might have some extra resistance to the rosette virus, which is really common around here.
  • It couldn’t be TOO gigantic [well, actually, that’s a lie.  There are only a few that would get TOO big for our very limited space].
  • I considered a yellow or a white rose, since I don’t have any of those colors.

As always, I wanted something that would make a good-looking plant, even when not in bloom.

After some serious weighing of options, I decided to buy what is reputed to be a repeat-blooming swamp rose.  [Most species roses bloom once a year, like azaleas].  The swamp rose, Rosa palustris,  is a North American native, and because my dad’s ancestral home is in a Mississippi swamp, Bob calls me “Swamp Rose.”  The fact that this was reputed to be a repeat-blooming cultivar sold me on it.

Good news!  It does appear to be repeat-blooming [blooms on new growth]: it’s already blooming on the new growth it shot out in all directions as soon as I planted it in early May 2014.  This picture was taken late June 2014. And the plant’s form is even prettier than I’d realized — open and airy, with graceful foliage.  It reminds me of Mutabilis, which makes a pretty plant.

Success!

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Garden design rule: Focus on the places you see most often

 

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For once, I’ve done it right.  I paid special attention to the area around the outside spigot, because — DUH! — I use it all the damned time.  And now every time I see it, it’s lovely to look at.  [The spigot itself is just behind the corner of the house.]

First, I got rid of the overgrown holly bush that scratched me any time I went near the hose.  [Design rule #1 should be, Don’t plant holly or agave or cactus near where you attach your garden hose.]  Then I planted part-shade-loving “Limelight” heuchera, neighbor Nick Petit’s hostas, azaleas, and sensitive ferns (Onoclea sensibilis)that wouldn’t get so big they impede access to the spigot.

Now the area delights me every time I turn the hose on or off.  When I do that, here is what I see:

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The perils of chickens . . . closer to home

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[Pecky & Ella above, with Amanda & Mark]

Our ex-neighbors did attain Amanda’s goal of having some chickens.  Mark got a dozen fertile eggs from a friend, and they incubated them with a warmer.  They hatched a day earlier than they were supposed to . . . .  Amanda could hear them peeping inside the shells, so she loaded them in a plastic bin with a rigged-up lightbulb warmer and took them on a business trip with her.  They ended up hatching in a Hampton Inn somewhere.

The warmer was insufficiently warm, so they didn’t dry off as quickly as they ought to have.  Luckily, Amanda had brought a hair dryer on her trip . . . Did you know that it’s not only possible to blow-dry a chicken, but that they also LIKE it (the warmth)?  I didn’t, either.  Sorry there are no pix of the tiny chicks being blow-dried.

The three more recent additions to the family [below] have not, to my knowledge, been blow-dried.  They were bought day-old, and guaranteed to all be girls.

 

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Here are Plymouth Barred Rock pullets, posing outside their little coop, under their picture.

 

 

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Finally, fountain functions!

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Of COURSE I couldn’t just BUY a ready-made fountain. 

NOooo, THAT would be too EASY!    I had to:

      buy a few concrete urns from Lowe’s,

      load and unload them myself [husband has back fractures],

      drag them into the backyard,

      decide that no way of stacking them looked right,

      then trek to Nicholasville and get the urn you see here.

      Then I had to paint it blue.

Then stack it atop a square planter, atop a concrete paver slab, to get it the right height and to be able to fit the tubing underneath.

      Then I had to thread the tubing through the whole stack [harder than it looks — the urn alone weighs at least 75 pounds].

      Then I had to take it apart, un-thread the twisted tubing, put it back together, and re-thread new tubing . . . .

It’s taken me since last YEAR. But I’ve made one juvenile robin so far very happy.  (I put a false floor inside the urn to make it shallow enough for birds not to drown in it).

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The greatest garden poem ever written


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I love this poem .  I wish like heck that I’d written it, but alas, I did not.  A woman named [pseudonymed, I see at Poetry‘s website] Biddy Jenkinson wrote it in Irish, and it was translated here into English by Nuala Ni Domhail.  It appeared in Poetry magazine (April 2006) http://www.poetryfoundation.org/poetrymagazine/browse/188/1#!/20607388

I showed it to my students, who loved it: “She’s talking back to God.  Cool!”

Eve in Her Garden in This Vale of Tears        ~Biddy Jenkinson

Accursed be the soil because of you.
With suffering shall you get your food from it
every day of your life.  —Genesis 3:17

I spend a lot of time upon my knees
serving the earth.
I sow seeds in soil.
I arrange the roots of trees in rich peat moss.
I sing “sean-nos” in chorus with
vixens, donkeys, bees, hens,
children, ravens, cows…
I understand the why and wherefore of the worm’s knot,
the warbling and the chuckling of birds.

Under my care
apples grow,
ears of oats turn blond,
hens go broody, cows seek the bull,
love puts down roots.

The drops on my brow
are sweated delight.
The child is worth the birth pang.
Life is worth its price.

I cancel out the curse of God,
defeat his greatest effort.
I grow posies of flowers
on the hobstone of hell.
Translated from the Irish by Nuala Ni Dhomhnaill

 via Amy Sorenson’s blog “The English geek ” http://amysorensen.typepad.com/the_english_geek/gardening/page/2/

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And here it is mostly grown in, on November 7, 2013.  

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Here is the front flowerbed, newly created on July 15, 2013, and filled with perennials from the sale at Wilson Nursery.  I couldn’t just leave that whole front lawn in . . . lawn.    

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Before pictures of new garden in progress

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I don’t know how I managed to take a picture of the house before planting almost anything, but I did.  This pic probably was taken late in 2012 or very early 2013.  The stone left of the steps is below a rose I moved from the flowerbed where the urn is now because it didn’t look right there and it kept stabbing me when I walked into the garage.  I don’t know what its name is, but it’s very petite.  I don’t think it’s “The Fairy,” because I’ve grown  that.  This rose is even smaller, and it bears larger sprays of smaller candy-pink flowers.  I think it’s something sold as easy-care, because it stays so bushy and green.  At bottom is Teeny.  

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New Rose Garden in Progress

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At the end of 2012, we moved from Lexington to Frankfort.  Weirdly, I did not mind leaving the garden I had established over fourteen years.  I was looking forward to starting a new one on a blank canvas.  Not making the same mistakes I made in designing the previous garden.   We also started with much better hardscape in our Frankfort house.  This picket fence is only part of what I like.

You may recognize the urn.  Somehow I managed to get it into my small car by myself [Bob has a bad back and I have forbidden him to help] and out into this spot in our new yard.  It makes this space between the garage and house look special.  

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